Uncategorized patrickmead on 30 Oct 2008 11:04 am
This Old Guitar
Scripture says that David played the harp to soothe Saul when he was in a difficult state. Some believe that Saul suffered from vascular headaches or back pain; something so bad as to affect his mood and decision making skills. Music has been used to move every major social movement in memory. "Amazing Grace" moved the abolitionists forward. "Look for the Union Label", "We Shall Overcome," The Bonny Blue Flag," and "Over There" have entered history and our culture’s consciousness. Hundreds of others could be named.
I thought about all of this last night and this morning. David knew the power of music and so did God. God made sure music was a part of our worship, teaching, and fellowship. While there are some churches that don’t baptize and others that don’t take the Lord’s Supper, it is hard to imagine a church that doesn’t sing or have some kind of music.
After the car accident, I’ve been put on a lot of meds. Many of them are now gone but the pain isn’t. Don’t feel sorry for me — anyone out there with a bad back is suffering more than I am today. Aspirin helps a little. Ibuprofen, not so much. The Vicodin helps but there aren’t many of them so I ration them.
But when I play the guitar, the pain fades. Anyone who hears me playing might actually experience an increase in pain but I don’t (I’m not that good). When I can’t read and I really don’t want to move around much, I reach for one of the guitars that line one wall and fill one rotary stand in my basement or one of the two upstairs in the family room. I’ll work on learning a bluegrass barn burner flatpicking break or I’ll play some Christmas carols (yes, already) fingerstyle on my Taylor or one of my classical guitars. Sometimes I’ll pick my my 12-string Yairi, the guitar I was holding when I first saw the girl who would become my wife a year later.
John Denver wrote a song called "This Old Guitar." It was about the first guitar he’d owned. Like many good things, he ended up selling it one day only to wish, years later, he had it again. Sure enough, passing by a pawn shop he spied his old guitar. He bought it again and wrote an ode to the blessings that that old guitar had brought into his life. I could write a dozen or so such odes. I used to play my 12 string quietly as I sat beside Kami. She would be doing her homework for high school or college and I would be hanging around, staying close. The guitar allowed me to do that.
The guitar gave me a chance to travel some of the American south with a bluegrass band — just for a year or so but, wow, what an experience that was. It was all part time (VERY part time) but the experiences and the songs are forever. I played a couple of them again last Tuesday night when some guys from church came over to jam and trade songs in my basement.
I recently held a gospel meeting at a traditional church in East Tennessee. They still sang the old songs out of the books, songs that I haven’t sung since I was ten or twelve years old. I was surprised to find out I still knew the words and "my part" (you church of Christ people know what I mean). Those old songs had burrowed down deep into me. They were still a part of me. I didn’t need the book because the words came, unbidden, from some hidden part of my brain.
Some songs take me back to the Isle of Skye (songs by bands and artists such as Ossian, Silly Wizard, Andy Stewart, The Battlefield Band). Other songs take me back to windy two lane roads in Alabama and Tennesee. Some songs take me back to white clapboard church buildings in Appalachia or the Midwest. Some songs take me back to my wife’s old kitchen table.
I am Saul. Music still comforts me when nothing else will. My advice? Take one guitar and… don’t call me in the morning.
on 30 Oct 2008 at 11:48 am # Mike
Thanks for bringing up guitar picking again…
and I promise not to call you in the morning. I am a frustrated guitar picker and was wondering if you have learned any “tricks” that you could share (if such tricks-of-the-trade exist). Professionals always make things look easy and some folks are just naturals. Don’t tell me it’s hard work and dedication – I know that already. There have to be at least 5 or 6 or a dozen shortcuts or things to know that make this obsession
easier. Or am I just howling at the moon?
There really are some shortcuts. First, learn all the chords A-G, Am-Gm, A7-G7. If you don’t want to barre chords such as F, Bm, etc. don’t! Leave the top E string alone for now. Then, get Steve Kaufman’s books and DVDs. His three DVD package on learning the fretboard or flatpicking starts very slow and reveals some great stuff midway through. Ignore Mel Bay stuff. It is okay but pales significantly beside Kaufman’s stuff. Learn one song at a time. Buy a three chord songbook if you want to sing along sometimes. Spend a year with the above chords and with Kaufman. Then and only then start learning fingerstyle. I have some tips for how to do that when you’re ready. Next time I come down, bring your guitar and I’ll teach you a few things.
on 30 Oct 2008 at 11:59 am # That Girl
I’m glad you have that old guitar!
on 30 Oct 2008 at 12:01 pm # Donna
I too am amazed at how many of those old songs just come to me when I visit my Mom & Dad’s or sometimes at our church.
I am glad your playing soothes what ails you…
on 30 Oct 2008 at 12:21 pm # reJoyce
I was watching an episode of an old Miss Marple mystery the other day and there was a funeral scene with the song “Abide with Me” sung acappella in the background. It made me cry. Not because of the scene, but because of the sweet memories of that song.
on 30 Oct 2008 at 12:54 pm # Mike
Will do. It may be a Haloween thing, but that last sentence scared me.
on 30 Oct 2008 at 3:00 pm # Laura
I hope your occipital neuritisis temporary and goes away soon.
My husband goes and “piddles around” on his guitar as stress relief. I haven’t done it in a while, but I used to go play the piano for that. Thanks for the reminder of how music is such a part of us.
on 30 Oct 2008 at 3:38 pm # Brian M
I so know what you mean about the relief that music brings. Many times I get to Wednesday and I am overwhelmed and frustrated by work and family and whatever, and then … I get to practice with Nino and the others in our church band, preparing for Sunday. Sometimes that time is so sweet that we just keep right on until the wee hours. I almost always go to work on Thursdays with sleepy but smiling eyes, and a very real peace. Praise God!
Dude! I SO wish I could practice with you! You guys are the best praise band — seriously.
on 30 Oct 2008 at 3:54 pm # Greg England
Since I was about 13, I’ve played guitar to sooth my frazzled nerves. The best worship times of my life include one or more of my guitars, or keyboards. A bit of trivia / useless information: John Denver could not remember where or how he lost that guitar, but the pawn shop where he found and “redeemed” it was in Long Beach, CA.
A hearty “Amen” to your advice to Mike (above) … Mel Bay stuff is HORRIBLE. It will do more to discourage a guitarist than it will ever do to help.
on 31 Oct 2008 at 7:15 am # Danny Gill
I sing with one of our praise teams at church, and we rehearse after church on Wednesdays. Those are long days for me, and sometimes I just don’t have the energy to do it. But after singing praise with those sweet singers, I feel like I can do anything! Blessed be the Lord for giving us music!
on 31 Oct 2008 at 9:52 am # Darryl
Patrick,
Do you have any of your music on the Web?
Darryl
Not really. There is one YouTube video of me playing solo guitar behind Josh Graves as he sang “Mary, Did You Know?” at our Imagine Christmas show. Other than that, I have avoided the internet…
on 01 Nov 2008 at 6:26 am # Alana
Go mbeannaà Dia dhuit! Padraig!
What would we do without music? God sure knew what he was doing when he decided on that one! “This Old Guitar’” made me think of Jimmy Buffett’s songs, “Six String Music and Blue Guitar.” There’s nothing like the comfort that music brings, except the love of the Father. Keep the music flowing, we know God does, whether we choose to hear it or not.
PS: Pitman misses you
I miss Pitman, too! Give out hugs on Sunday for me.
on 01 Nov 2008 at 6:22 pm # George
This is my first comment to your blog Patrick. About twelve years ago while training for a new job, part of the disability sensitivity training was to pick which of the senses one would choose if one had to give up one of the senses. Most of the trainees chose hearing but I chose vision. When asked why, I told the instructor that I could not imagine going throughout life without being able to listen to beautiful music.
Many years ago John Denver had a concert in Lubbock, TX on a Sunday evening. At that time I was a big John Denver fan so I skipped church and went to the concert. During the intermission I ran into one of the elders of the church I attended at that time.
on 02 Nov 2008 at 8:41 pm # Annette
I’m not a musician or a singer, but listening music has always been soothing to me. I am in awe of anyone that can write good music and lyrics, and of those that can play and sing. I have so many favorite songs that bring me back to specific moments in my life.
But did you have to mention “Look for the Union Label’!!! Boy did that take me back! My sister and I did quite the imitation of that commercial when we were kids…I still remember the entire song…and now it will be WEEKS before I get that out of my head!!! I feel the headache coming on….
I think of that song every time I play the bluegrass flatpicking classic “Redwing.” Not the same tune, but they are close enough to spark another few days of “look for the union label” running through my head.